A Brief Examination of Conscience
Conscientia, secundum ipsam nominis originem, importat ordinem scientiae ad aliquid: dicitur enim conscientia quasi cum alio scientia. (ST I, q. 79, a. 13) Saint Thomas Aquinas Do you give others reason to love you? Why are you afraid? What are you putting in the way of God granting you His peace? Is fear or trust the basis of your decisions? Who is first in your life? God? A spouse? Children? Work? Drugs? Sports? Do you project your own inadequacies on to others? Is holiness important to you? If 'no', then what is your religion? If 'yes', then how do you cooperate with God for your spiritual health and well-being? Do you have high expectations for your children and do you offer a high level of support to help them achieve their potential? Are you indifferent to your children? Your spouse? Do you maintain high expectations without providing support to others or to yourself? Why ask how someone is doing if you are not prepared to listen to his answer? Do you really care...