Offence Taken: The Weaponization of Wounds
Cain Slays Abel Is your workplace beset with individuals who take offence at matters that trigger them and them alone and who then proceed to torture others? Do you view the world through the lens of your wounds and feel justified in cursing others with false accusations simply because you need to feel powerful and in total control? Do you inflict as much or even more harm on others than you yourself have endured? Do you attempt to control circumstances—work, play, church—because you lack the ability to interact in mutually affirming ways? Do you lack a sense of humour, and so playful banter becomes a threat? Do you feel inadequate and looked down upon, though there is no condescension on the part of others? Do you use religion or politics as a means to insulate yourself from confronting your own foibles? Do you persist in projecting your anger onto others and attempt to blame others for making your life miserable? An exasperated acquaintance recently shared workplace tensions. He ...