Truth and Meaning knows me and loves me and calls me unto Himself.

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It's not just that truth is objective and that meaning is objective, it is that this Truth and Meaning knows me and loves me and calls me unto Himself. | Dr. Jennifer Martin citing Joseph Ratzinger and St John Henry Newman. Ignatius Press Podcast 8SEP2025.

What does a relationship with God mean to you? What does having a prayer life mean to you? How does a relationship with God impact your life? What is your part in that relationship?

What is prayer? Do you habitually reduce God to a mere granter of wishes? How we pray says a lot about our understanding and image of God. Do you pray to a comfortable god, a 'safe' god, an angry god? Considerable the following.

1 John 4:7-12 | Beloved, let us love one another; for love is of God, and he who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God; for God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the expiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No man has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.

Dr. Jennifer Martin reminds us that God calls us into a personal and loving relationship. The Catechism affirms the Church's view on the nature of that communion.

2615 CCC ... In the Holy Spirit, Christian prayer is a communion of love with the Father, not only through Christ but also in him: "Hitherto you have asked nothing in my name; ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full (St John 16:24)."

And the wisdom of a Doctor of the Church:

For me, prayer is a surge of the heart; it is a simple look turned toward heaven, it is a cry of recognition and of love, embracing both trial and joy. St Thérèse of Lisieux

Pray with confidence, knowing that God understands what’s best for you. When you align with His will, you can trust that He will provide exactly what you need in the right way and at the right time. He will give you insight into His purpose, offering added grace that boosts your confidence and inspires you to pray with even greater fervour.
We know that God does not listen to sinners, but if any one is a worshiper of God and does his will, God listens to him. St John 9:31
  1. Pray in the truth about your situation or that of another; be honest: St Matthew 6:8; St Matthew 6:31-33; Philippians 4:19; Proverbs 3:5-6; Ephesians 3:20; Romans 8:28.
  2. Pray in charity; will the good of the other: St Matthew 5:44; St Luke 6:27-28; St Romans 12:14; Proverbs 25:21; 2 Peter 3:9
  3. Invoke the help of the saints: Ps.103:20–21; Romans 12:12; St Luke 20:36–38; Rev. 8:4.
  4. Persevere: St Luke 18:1–8; Ephesians 6:18; Colossians 4:2; 1 Thessalonians 5:17.

The chief purpose of life, for any of us, is to increase according to our capacity our knowledge of God by all means we have, and to be moved by it to praise and thanks. J. R. R. Tolkien

Communion

A relationship stays alive when it's grounded in prayer that seeks the grace to will the good of the other. 

Human connections can often be unpredictable, even in well-established bonds. Before marriage, courting is an adventure of compromise, though always preserving dignity and mutual respect. Married couples understand that some level of compromise is essential. When both partners possess similar levels of spiritual and emotional maturity, authentic compromise comes spontaneously. In such relationships, mutual respect and the prioritization of each other's well-being become deeply embedded. This foundation allows couples to navigate challenges with grace, fostering a resilient partnership. Ultimately, it's this ongoing commitment to growth and understanding that helps love flourish over time.
Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: What! You too? I thought I was the only one. C. S. Lewis
Reconciliation

In today's world, many obstacles often impede human communication and emotional maturity. As a result, communication can deteriorate, and misunderstandings may arise, becoming weeds that drain the heart of its vitality. To foster genuine connections, it becomes essential to prioritize face-to-face interactions and cultivate empathy through active listening. By embracing these practices, we can nurture relationships that thrive despite the complexities of our digital environment.

Decent people have disagreements, and most conflicts are short-lived. But sometimes, an issue can take root in a way that demands extra effort to resolve. In those moments, if both parties work together to reconcile, they can adapt and maintain their connection. However, if one person is hurt and the other is indifferent or unaware, even a minor disagreement can grow and damage the relationship.

Love is never wasted, for its value does not rest upon reciprocity. CSL

Obstacles to Communion

Fear. Fear—not the kind that inspires awe but irrational fear—can consume even the strongest person and lead them to imagine the worst. Surrounding oneself with good friends creates a space to reflect on these thoughts, fostering trust and helping to dispel fears from the mind.
Hardship often prepares an ordinary person for an extraordinary destiny. CSL
Expectations. Setting high expectations that encourage people to strive to reach their potential, as long as those expectations are not delivered with condescension and/or a need to satisfy some misplaced sense of pride, fosters growth and maturity. On the other hand, expectations that enforce conformity for the sake of control, micromanaging someone’s daily life, are not only unrealistic and unfair but also emotionally and spiritually harmful, as they reduce a partner, employee, or loved one to mere compliance with another’s whims.
God gives His gifts where He finds the vessel empty enough to receive them. CSL
Beyond Fear

If we approach God out of fear or expecting Him to cater to our selfish desires, we risk letting self-centeredness take over and create confusion in our lives. God is not a buffet from which we pick and choose blessings to meet our selfish needs. God is a gracious host—like the father in the parable of the prodigal son (St Luke 15:11-32), who lovingly welcomes back His repentant children with trust and open arms. More than just a host, God knows and loves us deeply, calling us to Him with a joy that we can only glimpse briefly on this side of eternity. In those moments, we connect with the Giver of all good gifts, the One in whom we live, move, and have our being (Acts 17:28).
Life with God is not immunity from difficulties, but peace in difficulties. CSL

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